The Power of One

by Sandy Kirkman

When health professionals find themselves working in situations that seem, to them, to be wrong, it is easy to become discouraged. It is true that one single individual may have little impact on a well-entrenched system, but this presentation aims to explore how some such lone individuals have changed the world of childbearing women in the past, both recent and distant.

Having enjoyed a long career in midwifery, I can look back over four decades and find, (along with others to whom I shall refer), that the rose coloured spectacles are really needed. There is no golden age of midwifery lying neatly to hand in the middle part of the last century so we must continue to persevere and do it for ourselves.

Examples of pioneering practice will be taken from each decade from the 70s to the current noughties. As I am based in the U.K. it is inevitable that many of my examples will lie on that side of the world. However, some will be more local and more recent. It might even be more useful to participants to ignore the examples I give (most of which are referenced below) but, as I speak, to think of individuals they have known who have exhibited the power of one. It may be better still for each participant to work out how they could begin to exert that power in their own situation.

Poems

Poem 1
Autobiography in Five Chapters

By Portia Nelson

Chapter I

I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I fall in.
I am lost… I am helpless.
It isn’t my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.

Chapter II

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don’t see it.
I fall in again.
I can’t believe I’m in the same place, but it isn’t my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

Chapter III

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in…it’s a habit.
My eyes are open.
I know where I am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.

Chapter IV

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

Chapter V

I walk down another street.

Poem 2

“We are the music makers”
Arthur O’Shaughnessy. 1844–1881

We are the music-makers,
And we are the dreamers of dreams,
Wandering by lone sea-breakers,
And sitting by desolate streams;
World-losers and world-forsakers,
On whom the pale moon gleams:
Yet we are the movers and shakers
Of the world for ever, it seems.

With wonderful deathless ditties
We build up the world’s great cities,
And out of a fabulous story
We fashion an empire’s glory:
One man with a dream, at pleasure,
Shall go forth and conquer a crown;
And three with a new song’s measure
Can trample an empire down.

We, in the ages lying
In the buried past of the earth,
Built Nineveh with our sighing,
And Babel itself with our mirth;
And o’erthrew them with prophesying
To the old of the new world’s worth;
For each age is a dream that is dying,
Or one that is coming to birth.

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This paper was prepared for the Future Birth: With woman, with child tour, Australia March 2005.

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